Baby Ban in First Class...

First class passengers flying Malaysia Airlines won't have to bother with earplugs anymore...well, when it comes to crying babies that is. After many complaints from passengers who spend big bucks on the posh seating...the company decided to make the ban it's official policy.

So...this is a conversation. Tell me what you think.

First, I want to let you in on a secret. My hubby Sam is the baby whisperer. Regardless of where we go...if there's a baby/toddler anywhere near him they are transfixed on his face. He jokes that it is his big ears...but he doesn't look like Dumbo or anything...so I have to argue that! Maybe it's his blue eyes...his baby face...I don't know-but if you ever see us in an airport and you're worried about your kid acting up on the plane...just hand her/him to Sam! Actually, the last time we flew there was a toddler in front of us that wasn't having a good day and instead of using Sam using his baby powers...he handed her his iPad. It worked...for awhile.

I guess preparation for anything is key...and until (when or if) that ban reaches our American Airlines I think it's important to know all you can when it comes to traveling with your child. Did you know there's a family/medical/liquid lane that you can access when you are going through security at the airport? Look for the signs...then you won't need to worry about holding up impatient travelers standing behind you. I found a couple more tips that may help when you are busy traveling with your baby.

• Allow plenty of time at the airport for check-in, and connecting flights. Remember how much longer it takes to achieve anything with kids in tow and apply the same formula to your travel plans.

• Smile sweetly and helplessly at everyone and you may get help and be able to queue jump - 'always keep the lid on your blender'.

• Ask if your flight is full when checking in. Some assistants will block out the seat next to you in a less full flight or offer you the option of seating next to a vacant seat. This is particularly valuable if traveling with a toddler under 24months without a seat.

• Get on the plane first and off the plane last to get a better chance of assistance from cabin crew.

I like that third tip...yeah! If you travel often...I am a huge fan of my American Express Delta Card. I've received a couple first class upgrades...without asking...I get to use the priority lane, I get a free companion ticket each year and I get double points when I book my ticket using the card. Ok...neither of those companies paid me to say that....just an FYI...and I am a HUGE fan!!

Toy Story 4?!?!?!?

In the words of my good friend Cherie...Oh My Word!!

Toy Story 4??? When will it ever end? Sam and I saw Toy Story 3 and thought it was pretty terrible but what do I know...I fell asleep! Actually...I can say that it was ok, but too many scary references! I know...I know, the fairy tales I grew up with were pretty bad too...but this is in 3d! First of all...the bear=creepy. Then the giant teeth on the shredder...then the fiery furnace...come on people! I was so glad I didn't bring our nephew...what's up with all that? But...I guess I should not be surprised the franchise is still going strong...it made millions...probably billions worldwide, so why not another one?! We'll see...it's just talk at the moment.

We just recently attended a mixer where we met a guy who worked in the horror division of Lion's Gate. Do you know horror is one of the most profitable genre's in Hollywood? People love to be scared...I guess, but I don't get it, especially when it comes to our little ones.

When Bill Myers was writing our first story we went back and forth...(like a normal writing session would go) and we discussed this issue of it being scary. I...personally, do NOT like anything scary...suspenseful yes...but not scary. Our one scary character...a vulture named Madam Sneerly, is pretty amazing looking and she's kinda intimidating but I don't think she'll give your kids nightmares.

Am I wrong about all of this? I just feel like whatever you sow into your life you'll reap. Not to negate grace but I can't expect to eat cupcakes everyday and not gain weight. I can't expect to make any money if I don't work...and if I watch/read a lot of scary things...doesn't it make sense that I might live in fear? We don't want to put that into our kids, do we?

No "Him or Her" Non Gender parenting...

So...as we continue to work on our app for toddlers...Bedtime Bunny Tales I'm wondering if we are being too "gender specific" with Grandpa Bunny and all...

Just in case you didn't know...I'm kidding. I love both genders...male and female and I think both bring a lot to the table.

As I continue to research what mommies and daddies are talking about when it comes to their toddlers I've noticed this is a topic that's on the minds of many. My husband just sent me this article about how one Swedish Preschool is trying to eliminate any use of feminine or masculine in their vocabulary, steering clear of the typical dolls for girls, trucks for boys, etc...etc.
Here's the link to the article http://beta.news.yahoo.com/no-him-her-preschool-fights-gender-bias-122541829.html

This, to me...will never work.

Number one...fighting gender bias isn't helped when you eliminate it altogether. Men and women, boys and girls are different, plain and simple. At this preschool they want all the boys and girls to play with the same toys, the little oven right alongside the building blocks. That's fine...but let me warn you...it's only a matter of time until one of those little guys picks up one of the cooking utensils and turns it into a sword! I don't think you can program kids into doing anything...their natural inclination will win every time.

Yes...some girls would rather climb trees while some little boys would rather play with dolls...but you can't make any of them do what they don't naturally gravitate toward. That's the art of playing. It's make believe and regardless of what toy you give them their imagination will take over and make it into whatever they want it to be!!

If you don't know me...I've been a warrior for breaking down stereotypes my whole life. I love to do things that people don't expect a woman to do...but these things aren't "for women only" or "for men only"...they are just things I wanted to do. I think too often we buy into cultural stereotypes instead of God given talents and abilities.

I grew up playing with Barbies...I loved Barbies and my biggest dream was to have the Barbie Mansion and convertible. I also climbed trees, played football and later joined the Army Reserve. In fact...I was the first woman from my unit to graduate Drill Sgt. School. I also placed first in an Army obstacle course beating out about 30 other male competitors. OH...did I mention I love a good main-pedi and I am a sucker for all things beautiful?!?!

Inspire your kids...love them and help them to grow. What do you think?

The Tree of Life Movie Screening...

Last night I had the privilege of attending a screening of the movie The Tree of Life.
It was moving...powerful, dramatic and sometimes very confusing. OH...before I go on, I do want to note that our logo above is a giant tree! If you haven't watched our little promo video that explains the tree take a look below...ok, now back to the movie.



We watched the movie...then a panel of experts weighed in. Erwin McManus...who is a pastor, speaker, author and film maker moderated the discussion and asked the panelist a series of questions about the meaning of life, the meaning of the film etc. They discussed life on earth and the life here after. It was fascinating.

Sister Rose Pacatte from the Pauline Center for Media Studies was the only female, yet she definitely held her own amongst the other male clergy members. She was able to give a perspective that no one else could give...because in the beginning of the film a nun is quoted and it's something about nature versus grace.

Sister Rose explained that she was a child of the 50's...the era in which the film was set...so she could relate on not only a spiritual level but a pure visceral one too. She could remember playing with her brothers...running through the grass and wondering what they'd do the next day. I wish I could remember how she explained the quote above...but I just can't do it justice. She is also a film critic so if you are looking for a review check her out at http://sisterrose.wordpress.com/



This film isn't your typical movie...it takes on a completely new perspective. About 30 minutes into it there's a montage of images of when the earth was first formed, the solar system...pre-historic plants and animals...it's a crazy ride that leaves you utterly confused or completely in awe. I have to admit I was a little of both. Regardless...you should see it. I think it is a wonderfully new kind of film...void of aliens, robots and violence...things I didn't miss a bit.

First Day of Summer...

Today marks the first day of summer. We know that most of you have been enjoying some super hot temps already...while we here in Los Angeles are enduring the dreaded June Gloom. Yes, June gloom is real...but not as bad as it sounds. From early morning to mid-day it is overcast but the sun usually peaks its head out in the afternoon. The temps are moderate and there aren't too many days you'd pick to go swimming.

Growing up in Ohio was a different story. The first day of sun meant bathing suits and pool parties. After the long winter...everyone is ready for any kind of relief so regardless of how cold the water is...it isn't optional-you're taking a dip!

So how does technology play a part in your summer break? Do you have rules about how much time you allow your little one to be on the computer...phone, iPad, etc.? Is it harder to keep them away from the t.v. now that they have more free time? According to one study...75 percent of mothers hand their smartphone's to their kids. Setting clear limitations on using devices is critical in keeping your children well balanced and off the couch! Technology is great...but over use can be damaging!

Here are some good tips on avoiding media overload!

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Father's Day is over but many of the memories remain. Most of us choose to capture those little bits of time by snapping a photograph...while others write, some fight and well, many of us just look at the pictures and remember. Yesterday our family got together at my dad's favorite pizza joint. Yes, it's a pizza "joint", an Ohio bar with pie as heavenly as you can find...at least that's what papa thinks (and I happen to agree). I of course missed the celebration...being I'm in Los Angeles and the rest of the gang is back home...but thanks to my sissy's handy dandy iPhone she keeps me well supplied with good pics!

Anyway...while I was perusing Facebook yesterday I was amazed, perplexed, vexed and downright angered at some of the posts regarding dear ol' dad. Some people posted their thoughts as if they were sending a message to their long lost fathers, while others celebrated their one and only while others asked for supernatural abilities to help them...this is the one that really irked me. In my opinion...and in the opinion of one poll my priest quoted in service yesterday...there is nothing super natural about just showing up. According to the poll I mentioned the number one response to the question...["what do you think of when someone says
"dad" the overwhelming answer was "absent"]. Really? Absent? Like I said before, there's nothing supernatural about just being there. Kids need their dads and even if you don't have any money, power or fame they will appreciate the time you carve out to spend with them...believe me-time is love.

Grandpa Bunny...the main character in our app for kids is the father figure many kids are lacking. It's a shame that such an app needs to be made but more and more children are being raised by single parents...so we hope our character can give just a little comfort to a little guy or gal who misses his papa. For a sweet little story about becoming a father check out this article...

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/06/17/becoming-a-father/#more-23401

Father's Day...are dads more involved today than in the past?

In honor of dear ol' dad...this post's for you!

Father's Day, Mother's Day...pretty much all of the holidays conjure up emotions, whether they be good or bad, sweet or sour, something stirs inside us.

For me...this is a good one. Actually, I hold dear every holiday and it's not just because of the presents or food or any of that good stuff, I think I like them so much because I have fond memories of our family being together. I'm the only sibling of 4 to venture from home so I have to rely on technology to keep me close while all of the rest of the gang hangs out at someone's house. Since the dawn of summer that respective house is usually my sisters. She has a pool and if any of you grew up in the south or the mid west you know how important a nice cool dip can be after a long day in the sweltering heat. She provides that respite for many a family member as well as scores of neighbors friends and associates. Alas, I digress...back to dear ol' dad.

According to http://pewsocialtrends.org/2011/06/15/a-tale-of-two-fathers/

More dads are involved in the everyday raising of children while there are more fathers who are separated from their kids. In other words, the dads who are around are involved...while those who don't live with their kids are simply absent. Good news and sad news. Do you know a father who is around? A guy who is invested in his child's life?

When I sat down to write today I was thinking of all the apps for kids that involve a father figure. Maybe an eBook or a game...but I decided to focus on the real-the true and the HUMAN! Ha!
Since working on Bedtime Bunny Tales I can get pretty focused on stories and technology but I think we can all agree there's no replacing papa! Thus...I picked a guy to highlight that is a real and present father. I introduced his son a couple of days ago...but today is dedicated to him and all the other dads out there who are spending their time, money and resources on the most important thing in the world...their babies!

The guy is Tommy Heath. He and my sister Holly were high school sweet hearts and Christian is their son, my nephew. He is the little dare devil I described in my previous post. He and Tommy go hunting together, ride four wheelers, swim and anything and everything else you could dream of. They are like two peas in a pod...a relationship I would have loved to have had with my papa. My dad is a good guy and he was a great provider...but we didn't "hang out" together. I think it was his generation and the notion that mothers raised kids and dads just went to work. I'm glad that worn out belief is fading away. Fathers are soooooo important and I'm still hoping I can get my dad to ride a roller coaster with me! I'm just thankful that he's still around and I still have the opportunity to talk him into some things! Tell me about your dad...

Happy Father's Day....